All too often we hear the so-called authorities on sex and relationships tell us that size doesn’t matter. That the length of a man’s love muscle has little to do with a woman’s ability to achieve orgasm during intercourse. It’s not how deep you fish, it’s how you wiggle your worm. I think we can all agree that’s a load of bullshit.
Perhaps only the women reading this article will agree — can I get a resounding amen?! — but the measurement of your partner’s manhood most certainly will attribute to a successful climax. Let me put it to you this way…when you have an itch to scratch, do you look for an object that doesn’t quite reach? Or would you prefer something that hits the spot? I thought so.
Before all the boys who are a little light in their long johns post nasty comments below, hear me out. Just because a man’s member is above average does not mean he’s god’s gift to love-making. Such lofty accolades can only be earned through hard work and attention to detail. Which is exactly what levels the playing field. Good news!
I’ve been with men who left much to be desired below the belt, but still managed to get the job done. I’ve also encountered men with a sizable asset who had no idea how to effectively navigate it. While a large penis is an absolute delight, all is not lost for men who fall short in this department. No pun intended.
While perusing the pages of The Little Black Book of Sex Positions by Dan and Jennifer Baritchi, I discovered a position perfect for men looking to achieve deep penetration regardless of sexual endowment. The “Shoulder Holder,” as it’s appropriately named, is a twist on the missionary position. The female partner lays flat on her back with her legs straight up in the air while her male partner penetrates her sitting up on his knees, holding her legs to his shoulders. Got it? See detailed instructions here (NSFW).
Whether your lady likes it nice and deep, or you’re looking to extend your sexual limits, give this one a go. Post a comment below if this has worked for you or tweet me at @urbancowgirl
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